Overcoming Infidelity There are many reasons why married people cheat. Risk factors such as personality disorders and childhood issues, as well as opportunities such as social media and poor boundaries, can increase the chance that one of these reasons will actually lead to some type of affair. Frustration in the marriage is one common trigger; the cheater may make several attempts to solve problems to no avail. Maybe they had second thoughts about getting married or they were jealous over the attention is given to a new baby and neither had the skill set to communicate these feelings. Perhaps the straying spouse has childhood baggage — neglect, abuse, or a parent who cheated — that interferes with his or her ability to maintain a committed relationship. Less often, the cheater doesn't value monogamy, lacks empathy, or simply doesn't care about the consequences.
All item on this page was elect by a Woman's Day editor. We may earn commission on some of the items you choose to accept. But there are less-obvious characteristics so as to almost all cheaters share. Do individual or two of these a philanderer make? Not necessarily. But if the below rings true about your chap and your instincts tell you something's not right, you might want en route for check that collar.