I'm pretty sure monogamy was never for me. In fourth grade, I got in trouble with my boyfriend because he found out I had another boyfriend. Throughout high school and college, some of my relationships overlapped, and some were purely dishonest. But society told me I had to be with one person at a time, with the goal of choosing one person forever. I would often fall into a cycle of trying to make that work but eventually letting temptation get the best of me, and failing both parties of the relationship ; especially my partner.
Femininity in the Netherlands is no anathema subject, as anyone who has taken a stroll through the De Wallen district of Amsterdam finds out. Heck, earlier this year it was ranked the sixth sexiest country! What are Dutch attitudes towards sex? How are they educated in schools and really? How low do the lowlanders abandon it and is it hot?